Coaching - GROW MODEL
Questions for a development conversation
1. ESTABLISH THE GOAL
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What is the key goal of this development discussion in your eyes?
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What are some of your professional objectives (long-term, mid-term)? What are your key development goals associated with these objectives?
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Why are these development goals important to you? What is the importance of working on ____ in relation to your future success?
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If you succeed on developing these areas, what will it look like? How will you know if you are successful?
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What are some of your key challenges at work? How could achieving your development goals help you address them?
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Do you have a time frame for these development goals and professional objectives?
2. CHECK REALITY
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What kind of feedback on development have you received from your managers, peers, direct reports?
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In relation to ___ (development topic), what kind of situations does this pertain to most?
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In what situations do you usually find yourself doing (reference development topic) ___?
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Where did you need to use ___ skill / competency in order to get things done?
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Where did you feel comfortable in your use of ___ skill / competency?
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Where did you feel that your ___ skill / competency was not as strong as it could have been?
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Where can you use this skill in your daily work?
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How would you like to use ___ skill / competency differently in the future?
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And what have you done so far to try to improve on this area?
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What obstacles have you come across which slow you down in making progress?
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When you worked on ___ (development topic) in the past, what happened as a result?
3. IDENTIFY OPTIONS
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What kind of options exists to address these development goals? Any others?
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What activities would help you get closer to the achieving the goal?
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What else could you do? What haven't you tried yet?
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Imagine there were no obstacles, constraints or limitations, what could you do to try to move closer to your development goal?
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Are any of those options more feasible than others to implement?
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For the development activities we have identified, what are some of the advantages and disadvantages of each? What are the short-term and long-term implications of each option?
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I could think of some more development ideas on this topic. Do you want to hear them?
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Will this development activity really help achieve the goal we discussed earlier?
4. WRAP-UP / WAY FORWARD
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Which are the development activities you are going to focus on?
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When are you going to define the plan?
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Who needs to be involved? Who can help support you?
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What will you need to do in order to implement this plan?
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What could be potential issue you may be confronted with may get in the way of achieving this development goal? How do you plan to address these issues?
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Will this development activity really help achieve the goal we discussed earlier (rate effectiveness on achieving goal on a scale of 1 to 5)?
RESOURCES
Do I need a coach? Do I need a mentor? What is the difference between the two?
Why would I need a coach? What is coaching? What is mentoring?
How does coaching work?
If you are not sure, then what about having a 30-min conversation and discuss?